Over the next few weeks, I'll be featuring several of my community Pinterest boards.  Pinterest is a great way to organize ideas, especially the ones you want to save, but read later.  This first board, Awesome Autism! features pins from several different members of the Autism community.  You don't have to have an account to browse Pinterest, but you will need an account to save or "repin" anything that you like.

Are you on Pinterest?  Has it been useful in helping you compile ideas for your autistic child?  You'll find lots of great resources, suggestions, and ideas on our pinboards, stop by when you get the chance.

Important Note: Safety is key with this type of ADHD strategy.  Please utilize these ideas wisely.  These suggestions are not meant to substitute common sense or the advice of a health professional.

This information applies to parenting both neurotypical children, as well as children with Autism, Asperger's, and ADHD.  Many parents I work with find themselves constantly trying to put out fires and are always chasing behavior.  Without some way to be proactive, you will always find yourself dealing with behaviors. (Click here for a larger version of the psychological needs infographic)

I encourage parents to examine these needs and determine which ones are high for their child in general and then work at meeting those needs proactively.  I'll be talking more about meeting these needs proactively in the future, but for now I'll summarize.

Proactive parenting involves meeting psychological needs before they cause a conflict or a behavior problem.  It is a more subtle approach to parenting and involves a bit more thought and planning.  However, it is nearly always far more effective.

Which needs seem to be strongest for your children?  What proactive solutions have you tried?  Let me know in the comment section. Make sure to check back for future posts on proactive parenting.  I'll be sharing my experiences from my time in wilderness therapy, therapeutic foster care, play therapy, and family therapy.

The Spectrum Parents group is made up of local parents of children on the Autism Spectrum.  The group is "closed" or private, which means you'll need to request an invite from the group moderator, Suzi Noyes. I know many parents who are able to build supportive relationships with others, even though everyone is so busy with life.  You'll find links to resources, websites, blogs, events calendars, and, most importantly, other parents to connect with.

One of the group's goals is to remain positive and helpful, which means that you can turn to other parents, without the fear of being judged.  If you're a parent in Virginia Beach or Hampton Roads with a child on the spectrum, I'd really encourage you to check out the Spectrum Parents group.

Spectrum Psychological's Dr. Rick Ellis, posted this graphic recently on our Facebook page.  He wrote, "What you see is not what you get on the Spectrum. ASD kids are usually misidentified first as ADHD, then ODD, etc.. Anxiety/ Arousal/ Dysregulation is at the center of the emotional/ behavioral difficulties and should be addressed through consistency, predictability, stability and structure. Sensory issues are often overlooked and must be addressed." Click to see the original post of Layers of the Onion for ASD

Autism behaviors can be mistaken for so many disorders, since many disorders share some of the same symptoms, such as difficulty paying attention, hyperfocusing, and perseverating.  Getting a solid psychological evaluation can be crucial to good intervention and outcomes for children on the Spectrum.  (Did anyone catch my silly reference to the movie Shrek?)

Let me know in the comments what you think about neurofeedback for yourself or for your child.  I love to hear from readers and always respond to your comments.